Girl problem: Crush and crush???

[Kitten Medli]

If you want my opinion..rough guys looking hurt wouldnt turn me on. A light switch does...okay,seriously,no,I dont think.

Now,Ben..lets get real. It seems obvious she likes you...

...

Or shes an obnoxious brat pretending to be your friend. But..I wouldnt know and you seem to be a bright kid that could see through that kind of act. I still stick with her liking you.

[Alex]

Alex, if you were me you'd probably be refusing to tell her more.

Actually, I'd have to say you're wrong. The guys I've gone out with, they asked me out because they knew I liked them also. I'm likely to let people know if I'm crushing on them

[Chaud]

Or shes an obnoxious brat pretending to be your friend. But..I wouldnt know and you seem to be a bright kid that could see through that kind of act. I still stick with her liking you.

I really doubt it. She's a pretty nice girl and lends her friends stationary if they've lost theirs or something.

Yeah, I'm a bright kid, a top student and get great report cards, and get either B+, As (there's no A+), and rarely Bs. I'm not sure about Nahyeon cause out report cards are private and nobody else can see. I'm sure she's doing great or possibly betetr than me. We've rivaled in intelligence for years, but I'm gonna give up lol she's like the only non-giving up girl I know. We're both always up to date on your school work, and on the last dayof school the teacher said "If you've finished ALL your work, then find out the answers to your rock questiosn we did like Nahyeon and Ben are doing."

It's quite obvious we like each other, but this is a thing that will change your mind Medli. Well....last year everybody was teasing her and me that we liked each other. She also errr....began to cry. I just stood there, silent, because I DID like her anyway. However....Nahyeon......called in her mum. The teacher said we're too young to have gfs and bfs, but we're not too young to have crushes, right?

What do you say now?

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[Fallen]

you sound exactly like me >_< i have a crush on one of my friends...except i told her and got crush..ed! well sorry if that didnt help but maybe you have more luck/more in common and will become more than friends (in 2-3 years )

[Chaud]

you sound exactly like me >_< i have a crush on one of my friends...except i told her and got crush..ed! well sorry if that didnt help but maybe you have more luck/more in common and will become more than friends (in 2-3 years )

Thanks I guess I'm just gonna try and stick with her as long as I can, and stand up for the last fight when she leaves. I'll tell myself "Ben, this is your last chance, if you wanna lose your first chance at love in your life, then let her go. Y'know, you only get one first love in each lifetime, and there's only one lifetime for everybody. You want your first love to be who you want or not? Then run like hell and tell her!"

I'll also have a few dirty words to insult myself.

[Kitten Medli]

Or shes an obnoxious brat pretending to be your friend. But..I wouldnt know and you seem to be a bright kid that could see through that kind of act. I still stick with her liking you.

I really doubt it. She's a pretty nice girl and lends her friends stationary if they've lost theirs or something.

Yeah, I'm a bright kid, a top student and get great report cards, and get either B+, As (there's no A+), and rarely Bs. I'm not sure about Nahyeon cause out report cards are private and nobody else can see. I'm sure she's doing great or possibly betetr than me. We've rivaled in intelligence for years, but I'm gonna give up lol she's like the only non-giving up girl I know. We're both always up to date on your school work, and on the last dayof school the teacher said "If you've finished ALL your work, then find out the answers to your rock questiosn we did like Nahyeon and Ben are doing."

It's quite obvious we like each other, but this is a thing that will change your mind Medli. Well....last year everybody was teasing her and me that we liked each other. She also errr....began to cry. I just stood there, silent, because I DID like her anyway. However....Nahyeon......called in her mum. The teacher said we're too young to have gfs and bfs, but we're not too young to have crushes, right?

What do you say now?

I thought so.

I think she cried cause she didnt want anyone to know. I'd cry if rumors of who I liked were spreading the school like wild fire. Its none of anyones business but you and Nahyeons. I really think you wont reget it if you tell her. Even if she would reject you,you'd have the feeling of knowing you told her and theres nothing else you can do. I'd be a big load of you.

And you get those nasty words outta that head.

[robot]

I'm quite surprised with myself right now. I didn't realize who you were when I first read this post. I should have. >.<

If you are so insistant on the fact that you are both "too young for bfs and gfs" than why is this even a problem to begin with?

[coming2atvnearu]

Pffft, I can tell from the way you're writing you got de groove. She likes you. You're not sure, but you're sure? I feel ya. She likes you.

That being said, YOU'RE TOO YOUNG! Just enjoy it, young grasshopper. But know that she likes you. Bring it up again in high school, laugh about it, if you haven't already by then ask her out for dinner. Its all good.

[Tymaporer]

You're not too young to like someone. And you two can still hang out together and stuff after school if she likes you. It's not like you're b/f and g/f, it's just like...I can't really explain, but you know what I mean.

[Chaud]

You're not too young to like someone. And you two can still hang out together and stuff after school if she likes you. It's not like you're b/f and g/f, it's just like...I can't really explain, but you know what I mean.

Yeah, just....how the heck do you explain it?

coming2atvnearu - Groove?

[coming2atvnearu]

Yeah, the groove! You know. You like someone, they like you, but no one is willing to admit it, but you both know and realize it. It feels good. And that, my friends, is what we call The Groove™

(Also known as The Crest™, if you go by the relationship wave theory.)

[Fiddelysquat]

If you're 11, I honestly believe you're too young to be having romantic relationships, really. I'd work on cementing a solid friendship. They're woth more than short lived dates, and it can turn in to something very serious and strong when you're older.

[Chaud]

Yeah, the groove! You know. You like someone, they like you, but no one is willing to admit it, but you both know and realize it. It feels good. And that, my friends, is what we call The Groove™

(Also known as The Crest™, if you go by the relationship wave theory.)

Lol Well beware, Groove™ cause you're gonna be grooved by Grooved™

Fidds - Yeah, I'm trying to get us better friends. Got any tips?

[Fiddelysquat]

Instead of only talking about that Deltora Quest thing, find out about other things she likes. See if she uses her computer and start an online game like Runescape together and be IM buddies. After you two talk a lot for a while and really get to know each other, you'll be able to carry on conversations that aren't just discussions about common interests. You'll be able to joke around and such.


If somebody teases you or her, just say, "Sorry, I'm mature enough to realize that guys and girls can be friends. Maybe you're too much of a baby to know that cooties aren't real, but we've figured it out already." Make them look stupid.

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[The Fifth Marauder]

I'm sorry if all that confused you...to make it clearer, my answer is tell her. She may not like you now, but when she finds out, she may start to like you.

I've seen that happen before. Boy likes girl. Girl doesn't like boy. Girl finds out about crush. Girl likes boy. Not guarenteed to work, though.

Now, I personally believe that in order to have a relationship (as in a boyfriend-girlfriend type thingie), you have to start with a friendship. The stronger the better. I see that you two like the same books. That's a start. Just start a conversation with her, and talk about some random stuff until you find some more common interests. You could try to do it in a more...private place. If she's as good of a friend as she seems, she won't hold back or look at you like you're crazy or something. Smurf, she may even enjoy the attention. Like Fidds said up there ^, you soon won't have to rely on just interests anymore. You could just, well, talk about random stuff! And maybe what you talk about with your other friends.

So basically what I'm saying is that be friends now, and wait until you're old enough to start a deeper relationship. If she ends up not feeling the same way later on, then you can fall back on the friendship you've formed. Who knows, you might even be crushing on another girl in a few years.